Are you still single? Why? Dating apps have rapidly increased in numbers. That means people lean on them to hook up or meet the real love of their lives. If you don’t believe in them, there must be something wrong. You must have invested your time and energy into a dead relationship for too long and now given up on this for good. Heartbreaks are common in the 20s. Look around, and you will have many examples. Once you reach your 30s, you will be a mature individual who understands the significance of prioritizing oneself over others and giving something to someone who truly deserves it.
If you want to start your life afresh with new commitments, join an app and date Filipina singles. Filipinas prefer family men who take their responsibilities seriously and respect their partners. Hence, they can be your best match. However, before you connect with them, make sure to untangle your emotions. Women tend to be sensitive. They may not want to engage with someone with emotional baggage. So, let’s purge through some introspection and retrospection.
The overflow of emotions from your past into the present!
Many people suffer in love relationships. You are not alone. So please avoid the bitterness. Also, when you get a new opportunity, ensure you give your total effort. However, it will be a mistake if you are still searching for someone perfect – no one can ever be flawless. If you romanticize such feelings, it’s time to revise your expectations. General tendencies can be to look for qualities like affection, good looks, lifestyle choices, romantic nature, financial strength, and other things. Isn’t this checklist too long? Be practical about your expectations. Just because you believe a specific trait or lack of it in your partner ruined your relationship, you cannot compare the other person on the same parameters. Instead, a good way can be to look for matching value systems and faith.
Suppose you both are Christian. In that case, you will be confident that you two can agree on specific rituals and ways of life. However, it doesn’t mean there will not be differences of opinions or arguments.
What is not yours didn’t deserve your love!
Don’t blame yourself for everything. You cried enough for the person you loved from your heart and soul. Now, it’s time to realize they didn’t deserve you. Be fair! At the same time, when you meet someone online, look at that individual as unique. Comparing them with your ex can only spell troubles. It will only be momentary if you feel the person is better in a particular aspect and take joy in that trait. The next time you can get tremendously upset because you noticed some similarity in their behavior or found a specific attribute you admired in your ex was missing in the new person. So, avoid this loop.
Your past should not determine your future. Companionship and love make your life complete. Don’t punish yourself for the failed relationship to the extent that you remain single for the rest of your life. You deserve an understanding partner or someone who cares for your feelings. Give it a chance!